Originally published on Call of the Quean I recently wrote an article for Well + Good on handling fear and jealousy in non-monogamy. Those of you who have been with me for a while now know that, despite my greater desires, I am not exempt from these complex emotions. It’s…

Originally published on Call of the Quean Dear Hot Husband: It was 2019, we were living in Atlanta. It had been a few days since we discussed the idea of finding someone you could enjoy without me. …

Originally published on Call of the Quean James is the most heterosexual person I know, and I always follow that fact up with the joke: No one’s perfect. Even his porn excludes the penis(!), making our adult film preferences incompatible. …

Originally published on Call of the Quean Dear Hot Husband: In some contexts, you’re shyer than in others. It’s always a precious thing to see because it’s so out of character. …

Originally published on Call of the Quean How you experience your own sexuality and the terminology (if any) you use to describe it is no one’s business but your own. …

Originally published on Call of the Quean, #QLQ. On my blog I have a feature called QLQ — Quean Life Queries — where readers anonymously submit questions on topics of sexy travel, ethical non-monogamy, pleasure activism, and more. I don’t normally share them on Medium; however, this one felt important… Why are men so desperately lonely and craving attention? …

I’m never certain how to start these types of articles, and yet here it is… 2022 has been a strange and wondrous year. James and I have had a range of Sexy Travel experiences (from Parisian sex parties to luxurious clubs on the Cote d’Azur), have met some incredible people…

Originally published on Call of the Quean As a cuckquean, I find myself in situations that most people (I know) won’t experience in their lifetime. This creates a disconnect between me and others. It’s involuntary, but present. I have spent the last several years pursuing pleasure in the same way…

Originally published on Call of the Quean I’m sitting here doing a rare thing: listening to music as I type. It’s usually devastatingly distracting, but I’ve spent the last 30 minutes building a 7-hour playlist entitled, Autumn 2022, and I just can’t help myself. Current beat: Wasting My Time by…